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When it comes to parenting, genders do matter. And I'll say why:

Children are not only one of the greatest gifts from God, they are also the heart of marriage. It is important for them to be trained in the right direction, the way of the Lord. The Bible says in Proverbs 22:6 "Direct your children onto the right path, and when they are older, they will not leave it." But in today's world, they are forced to watch this horror happening in their lifetime, just like what happened to that little boy who got sexually abused by the two homosexual 'dads'. (christiannews.net/2013/07/06/h… )

At worse, they are being taught that this sodomy practice is okay, when clearly it's not. Its abnormal, and this false teaching will lead children to Hell. And each child deserves a mother and a father, and gay parenting denies such a gold standard, as the new law does nothing but fulfill the selfish desires of the adults, instead of the well-being of the children.

And let me tell you this: if you think that genders does not matter in parenting, you are sadly mistaken, and you are practically going for the selfish desires of adults instead of the well-being of the children.. You think it will not affect the child, it will. In a very drastic way. 

If two men parent a child, they are discriminating against the mother. And if two women parent a child, they are discriminating against the father, cos the child is entitled to his/her biological mother and father.

Even recent studies show that kids are better off with a mother and father than same-sex couples.

barbwire.com/2014/05/10/cdc-st…

Having said this, God created family structure in which consists of a child (or children if more than one), a mother and a father. Even God's Holy Word mentions the words "mother" and "father".

And gay "parenting" denies such a golden rule. Two people of the same gender cannot properly raise a kid. That child will have no idea who his/her real mother and father are.

Because in the end, a mother and a father are irreplaceable.

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cutewerewolfgirl Featured By Owner Apr 1, 2015  Student Traditional Artist
Your going off the deep end with this literally. Like the family I use to live with. First off some gay and lesbian couples raise kids better then straights, and just because you have a different sexuality doesn't mean your any different from the rest. My cousin is gay, my aunt is a lesbian and so are some of my cousins and they are the nicest people you'll ever meat. Seriously leave the LGBT community alone until god teaches you true exceptance.
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AussieJimfan Featured By Owner Nov 5, 2014  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
I solely agree with everything that was said in this journal. :) keep up the good work and never back down from the truth. Stand firm on Gods word!!!
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DaGmodSpartan Featured By Owner Oct 29, 2014  Hobbyist Photographer
Laa shay'a waqi'un moutlaq bale kouloun moumkine, do you know what this means? means "Nothing is true. Everything is permitted", this is not a doctrine this is a observation of the nature of reality, Telling nothing its true its say that the pillars of civilization are fragile and and we must have free will to choose our path once the pillars fall, telling everything is permitted its saying we are the architechs of our lifes with every choice we make and live with them be glourious or tragic, the bible we all know its a lie its not even the original one, the real one was found some time ago and they havent showed us the truth about what really happen, god didnt wanted us to live opressed, his true gift was the free will and choose our paths, people its becoming atheist because people who is such a closed minded person, gender, religion, skin color, nationality, sexual preffrence, nothing of that truly matters life is very short to waste it with such things like this, so just live your life the good as you can and always be prepared for the consequences of your actions, homosexuality is not wrong, if you have a kid and borns been homosexual would you deny him/her? homosexuality its something genethic not even a illness, its confirmed so this is non-sense
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Italy-Chibitalia Featured By Owner Oct 29, 2014
Marriage is not just for sex and having kids. Some people don't want kids, like myself. So a homosexual couple abused their kid, that's not saying that a straight couple would never do the same. There have been many instances where a hetero couple has abusive parents. And saying this: "Direct your children onto the right path, and when they are older, they will not leave it." does not make sense. Last time I checked, eventually kids grow up to become their own person. I grew up in a semi-Christian home, but I ended up becoming an atheist. Kids are allowed to have freedoms too, it happens. Sometimes if parents are too strict, kids will just want to rebel even more.
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Kegger98 Featured By Owner May 19, 2014
Yeah, he seems so destroyed.
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katrinahood Featured By Owner Apr 6, 2014  Student Digital Artist
What's your definition of a family?
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FCU777 Featured By Owner Apr 7, 2014  Student Filmographer
Here is the REAL definition of a family structure:

A family consists of a child (or children if more than one), a mother and a father living together in one household.
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0llie0llie Featured By Owner Sep 28, 2014
What about single parents?
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katrinahood Featured By Owner Apr 7, 2014  Student Digital Artist
So a childfree couple isn't considered a family?
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FCU777 Featured By Owner Apr 7, 2014  Student Filmographer
When did I say that?
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katrinahood Featured By Owner Apr 7, 2014  Student Digital Artist
You told me the "real" definition of a family consists of a mother, father, and child (or children).
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:iconfcu777:
FCU777 Featured By Owner Apr 7, 2014  Student Filmographer
Yeah.

Btw, have you heard of Sarah, the wife of Abraham?
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katrinahood Featured By Owner Apr 7, 2014  Student Digital Artist
Yup.
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FCU777 Featured By Owner Apr 7, 2014  Student Filmographer
The woman was childless of so many years. Then three angels visited Abraham, and told him that he will have a son. Sarah thought it was funny, but then, regardless, the prophecy came true as she gave birth to Issac at the age of 90.

And she's not the only one who didn't die childless: Hannah was also childless, and she was mocked by many because of that including Penninah. But instead of taking matters into her own hands, she took her case to God and He heard her. Hannah had to do her part though cos she made a vow to Him. After giving birth to Samuel and doing her part, guess what? The LORD BLESSED HER WITH 5 MORE CHILDREN!
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katrinahood Featured By Owner Apr 2, 2014  Student Digital Artist
Looks like some people don't agree with your opinion, me included.
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wingedalchemist2961 Featured By Owner Mar 9, 2014  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
My mom was a single parent. I have issues now, being around guys and learning how to act around them. I am uncomfortable around adult guys because I was never exposed to any when I was young in a personal way. You cannot properly raise a kid without both a mom and a dad. A second mom cannot replace the missing dad. It's not possible. You may turn out alright (I turned out fine) but you will have issues even if you ignore them. 
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AussieJimfan Featured By Owner Edited Nov 5, 2014  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
You both are only making me cry!!! Tears of joy!!! I'm adding you both as a friends! I'm looking for more Christian and God loving people to add to me friends list. And right now I see that Gods doing just that over a small search I did.

God bless you both!!

Would you both be intrested in joing palringo? Its an app on the phone apple and android and we have Christian rooms feel free to help save souls through your truth from God. :D
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FCU777 Featured By Owner Mar 10, 2014  Student Filmographer
:nod: I absolutely agree with you that a mother and father are both needed as they play an important part in the child's life, and that a second mom simply cannot replace a missing dad.

Well, I'm raised by both a mother and father, and I simply can't choose between them. Its impossible. Some may think it will turn out okay with single parenting, but really, the fact that a mother and father is needed is irreplaceable.

Thanks for sharing your testimony my friend.

God bless.
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wingedalchemist2961 Featured By Owner Mar 14, 2014  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Thanks :)
I know, there is no way to pick between your mom and your dad, it's impossible.
God bless you 
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katrinahood Featured By Owner Mar 9, 2014  Student Digital Artist
So single parents shouldn't be allowed to raise a kid?
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wingedalchemist2961 Featured By Owner Mar 9, 2014  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
No my mom was a single parent I turned out alright :) but I have issues being around guys and adults because I was never around guys in a personal way when I was little. The kid will have problems depends on how big they are. 
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katrinahood Featured By Owner Mar 9, 2014  Student Digital Artist
Your example shows that children don't always need both a mother and a father.
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wingedalchemist2961 Featured By Owner Mar 11, 2014  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
No believe me they need one. Having both is better than not. 
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katrinahood Featured By Owner Mar 11, 2014  Student Digital Artist
That's a good point actually.
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wingedalchemist2961 Featured By Owner Mar 14, 2014  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
You had a good point too :) I wish I grew up with a dad and a real mom (I pretty much raised myself and my sister). Wouldn't have so many issues now, but I am who I am because of my struggles and I would never dream of changing it. It's not a perfect world, we have to learn to live through the crap.
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DemonFoxProductions Featured By Owner Apr 3, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
So that's why you had issues...
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wingedalchemist2961 Featured By Owner Apr 6, 2014  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
pretty much. the fact that my mom was a meth addict didn't help much either 
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Jamesruglia Featured By Owner Mar 9, 2014
If you argue that a mother and a father's roles are distinct, then they are irreplaceable by "two fathers" or "two mothers".

If you argue that a mother and father's roles are not distinct; that they just happen to be two people, then you argue against human history, all social science, declarations of various religions, and common sense.
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Tigryph Featured By Owner Mar 4, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
Another point is that in a mother/father household, the child is exposed to and learns how to identify with both halves of humanity. They learn how to identify with men and women, they learn how a marriage functions, they learn about how different both genders are, their strengths and weaknesses, etc. Children from one parent households or even same gender parenting situations end up missing out on this exposure typically. They don't know how to identify the gender missing in their upbringing. Boys without fathers run higher risk of becoming gang members according to a few studies.
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Treasures-Of-Wisdom Featured By Owner Jul 4, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
(I'm not questioning your statements or conclusions, I was just wondering if you had an immediate link to those studies so I could verify them one way or the other?  Thanks!)
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Tigryph Featured By Owner Jul 4, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
I could but it would take some digging. :3 I did a study for a college a few years back and I don't have them on hand. I encourage you to do some digging around, find multiple sources. A lot of my 'quick sources' will be from sites that lean right and ex-gay testimonials. There's hundreds of those on youtube.
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FCU777 Featured By Owner Mar 4, 2014  Student Filmographer
:nod: That's a really good point there.
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stefanbauwens Featured By Owner Mar 4, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Wow. I always guessed it would affect the child, but I didn't know it was that bad. > : (

I think the right to have children should only be given to straight married people, because it naturally can only occur there and only in such a relationship the child is best taken care of.
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katrinahood Featured By Owner Apr 6, 2014  Student Digital Artist
...So single people shouldn't be allowed to adopt?
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stefanbauwens Featured By Owner Apr 7, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Indeed.
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katrinahood Featured By Owner Apr 8, 2014  Student Digital Artist
But then the amount of children in the adoption system won't lower as much! :( (Sad) 
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stefanbauwens Featured By Owner Apr 8, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Well, a child need a father and a mother for good education which is very important. And also a father and a mother for a good promise of being capable of taking good care of the child.
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FCU777 Featured By Owner Mar 4, 2014  Student Filmographer
:nod:
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wlynn2u Featured By Owner Mar 3, 2014
Gay Christian? No such thing
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tetornow Featured By Owner Mar 11, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
How about a drunk Christian?  No such thing?

The Greek behind the word "believe" in John 3:16 actually means that an individual must place 100% trust and reliance upon Jesus.  They must hang onto him as if they were never let go.

This is much like asking a "pro-Bono" (free at no cost) lawyer to represent you in the court of law.

One must ask Jesus to fully represent them before God on the day of judgement.

A "gays go to hell" mentality implies that NOT being gay earns your way into heaven.

It does not work that way.  What works is a total reliance on Jesus to get you through past Hell.
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FCU777 Featured By Owner Mar 4, 2014  Student Filmographer
Indeed. Even Jesus himself warned about serving two masters.
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Rose0Lo Featured By Owner Jan 26, 2014
There is has been a study proven that there is no bad effect on a child raised by same gender parents. They grow up the same way. And anybody can be capable of abusing someone. 
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tetornow Featured By Owner Mar 11, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
Studies like polls and surveys can (and are) manipulated to prove anything.
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katrinahood Featured By Owner Apr 6, 2014  Student Digital Artist
Like the polls and surveys that show that there will be bad effects on a child raised by same-sex parents?
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FCU777 Featured By Owner Jan 26, 2014  Student Filmographer
Actually, same gender parents CANNOT properly raise a child, because a mother and father do matter. Plus God created family structure consisting of a child (or children if more than one) a mother and a father.

Plus a recent study shows that kids are better raised by a mother and father than same-sex "parents": www.thepublicdiscourse.com/201…
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ChocolatePeachKitty Featured By Owner Sep 27, 2014  Hobbyist
God isn't a good argument in these kinds of discussions because not everyone is religious.
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FCU777 Featured By Owner Sep 27, 2014  Student Filmographer
Not everyone believes in Him, but really, He has the final say.
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treacheroustorment Featured By Owner Jan 9, 2014  Hobbyist Artist
i'm a gay christian and you're a literal trash can
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ErinTheEevee Featured By Owner Aug 12, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
Great, do you want a cookie for being gay?
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treacheroustorment Featured By Owner Aug 12, 2014  Hobbyist Artist
that would be awesome actually can it be chocolate chip
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